Certified Coach, Lumia (ICF-accredited program)
Training rooted in positive psychology & behavioral change
Trauma-aware, client-centered approach
6+ years supporting women in dating & long-term relationships
Focus on clarity, self-trust, & sustainable connection
Hi lovebird— I’m Alissa.
Healthy Dating & Relationship Educator
I know what it’s like to feel confused, hurt, and exhausted by dating. I’ve been in relationships with men who couldn’t commit, who lied, who disappeared, or who made me question my worth. For a long time, I kept trying to be “the right version” of myself—hoping that would finally lead to lasting love.
It didn’t.
At some point, I realized something had to change. Not just who I was choosing—but how I understood love, relationships, and myself. That realization led me to coaching, and it changed everything.
Now, I help women who are thoughtful, self-aware, and deeply empathetic break out of those same patterns—so they can date with clarity, choose differently, and build relationships that actually feel good.
This work is honest, sometimes uncomfortable, and deeply transformative. It’s about coming back to yourself—so you’re no longer chasing love, but choosing it from a grounded, confident place.
I’m still on this path too. And it’s an honor to walk alongside you in this part of yours.
“Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”
— Lucille Ball